Three and a half years ago my heart was changed forever. I had become a mother and Gabe had become a father. I will never forget how he stood by my side as we welcomed our sweet Miles into the world, how he looked at Miles and truly absorbed the responsibilities that lie before us. The moment I saw him hold our son changed me, changed my love for him into something stronger and deeper than before. My heart grew to encompass Miles, but it also beat stronger for my eternal companion.
When Miles was just new and I was struggling to adjust to being a new mommy, Gabe was my rock, my constant. He was the most amazing dad and the most supportive husband. Even though he had to wake up and go to work the next day he would get up with me every time Miles would fuss. He would sit next to me while I struggled to nurse. I don't remember once hearing him complain.
Daddy is definitely the fun one at our house. He has always tried to find ways to make Miles laugh. Even though he works long ours and we don't get to see him as much as we like he is always willing and eager to play with Miles the second he walks through the door. Miles absolutely loves playing with his dad.
He even manages to make work fun. Whether it's shoveling snow or mowing the lawn Miles is always asking if he can help and Gabe is always willing to let him, even if it means a job that should take 20 minutes ends up taking 60. He is such a great example of hard work, accountability, service, patience and love.
When you ask Miles, "Who loves you?"
He is quick to respond, "Daddy (and mommy)."
There is no question in his mind that his dad loves him.
How can you doubt the love of a man who tells you he loves you every day, asks and seeks out hugs, and goes out of his way (even when it's not convenient) to spend time with you?
The other day Miles said; "I want to play with my friend. Where's my dad?"
It was such a precious statement and it filled my heart with joy and love for the father of my children.
Thanks Gabe for being a great dad and an amazing husband.
